Nicki Minaj offers candid advice on toxic relationships. Now going by Mrs. Petty on her Instagram page, Minaj has something to say about domestic unions.
Nicki Minaj: I Saw My Parents Fight & Argue, I Thought This Was Normal Behavior
Offering very candid thoughts on relationship issues, Minaj spent her Saturday afternoon giving advice to ‘All of you beautiful souls’.
“When u see a woman in a toxic relationship, rather than laugh & say mean things, try to offer sound advice from your heart & root for her to learn her worth…we’ve all been there. I saw my parents fight & argue non stop & never divorce, so I thought this was normal behavior.”
Nicki wasn’t done, she added “Dear all of you beautiful souls. A man who loves you does not:
- 1. Humiliate you on social media
- 2. Beat you
- 3. Cheat on you
- 4. Call you out of your name/put you down to lower your self esteem due to his own insecurities.
- 5. Hide his phone, passwords, where abouts, etc.”
A Man Should Make You Feel Safe, Not Afraid
As reported by Billboard, Minaj is speaking from experience, and has something to say about others going through the same thing. Obviously doing some soul searching, some her own personal experiences on the subject were shared, she stated –
“I rlly used to think love had to hurt…So I could never look down on anyone else. We are merely human. It’s not easy to leave. Especially in the world of IG where all ppl want to do is post relationship goal pics for clout & attention. A man should make you feel safe, not afraid.”
I Now Feel Lifted Up, Safe, Appreciated & Unconditionally Loved
“I remember being so afraid to speak cuz I never knew when that person would be in a particular mood and I could maybe say one wrong thing that would get me hit. So the diff you see in me now is that feeling when a woman feels lifted up, safe, appreciated & unconditionally loved,” she said.
“But I first had to learn how to love MYSELF. if you wouldn’t let a man treat your mother, your sister or best friend like that b/c you LOVE them, then you wouldn’t let a man treat YOU like that b/c you love YOU. This isn’t about judging. We judge too much. Lift them up.”
Reportedly, Minaj and her partner Kenneth Petty have applied for a marriage license. While on her Queen radio show back in June, Nicki stated that she and Petty will be married in about ’80 days’.
Looking very happy these days, her new man must be doing something right. Everyone who finds themselves in a relationship, or anticipate being in one should heed the advice given by Nicki Minaj. It’s actually some very good advice. What do you think?